updates on the bro…

All I know, he has gone all religious hahha

Zul  & a second cousin of ours, Timi

Panjang rambut, temeng dah ni!

Zul & Timi…glad to see you’re all well & happy

what he’s good at

Can’t wait to see you in June!

what’s up?

CONGRATS AIN ON YOUR GRADUATION!!!!

the cousins are so proud of you and we wish you all the best!!!

btw, the clock is ticking…kaka pija’s wedding is just around the corner, next month…wuhu!!!! aku flower girl!!! aku flower girl!!! hahahaha bah ladies, sleepover rah ka pij…NADA ALASAN SIBUK KAH APA!!!! NADA!!! semua mesti berasak tidur rah biliknya…hehehe

btw bey, kain ah…belaku dang? inda jua sampat mutung ni krg!

For now ani saja dulu, more great things to come… soon be update ni blog ani, semester ani gila bah…I couldn’t do anything bout it…

till then…

fromt hee ightt ot hen ine

so…is 2000 and 9 going to be any better than this year…I guess…yea…

Firstly, we have two upcoming weddings – ‘Dk Affidzarena(ka. pij) & Hj Shafie’…&…’Hj Suazmie(abg. mimi) & mazidah’…looking forward to it…the last time family ani ada kawin-kawinan was bulan 6…we love weddings…kenapa nah?….BEGAMBAR-GAMBAR! yay!!!! vain kali ah se family ani…and family basar with all the second cousins and all, it’s going to be loud AND fun! moreover, kaka pija’s wedding is going to be the very first ‘first cousin’ wedding (hhhmmm kalau lurus jua tu but you get me…right)…with abg mimi, I don’t know why I’m calling him abg, uncle wah banarnya…I guess biasa sudah..

Secondly…aunty nizan & uncle g.bahri balik…yay…the family is all together again…then…Ain will graduate soon, I know she’s looking forward to that…what else ah..next year’s semesters are going to be very challenging but interesting bulan March, ‘we’ might be away sekajap..*lallaalalululala* ganya yg membari takut 09 ani, being a year older hahaha 20 atu lawa wah, 21 mcm entah ah…lain I feel old…imagine ME in my thirties, menangis kali hahaha but…I doubt it

I was just mencek2 gambar td…so here are some memories taken this year, it’s not much:

blog-making – behind-the-scene

cousins’ escape 1

cousins’ escape 2

cousins’ escape 3

tuhfah’s wedding

cousins’ night out

raya 08

time aunty ana bday…I couldn’t be there that night, I had a class to teach..

I do believe that there are a lot of good exciting things to look forward next year but so far, some of the above are the only things I can think of…will update more…soon

“09…can you keep up with us? “

Past….

Rindu nini girl sama nini boy today…just out of the blue…pasal today sunyi atu kali…

Back then, the fun that the cousins, uncles, aunties and nini had together was so indescribable…the laughter, parties & gatherings, I missed all that…napa semua ani mesti branti lapas nini boy nada :’( I’m sorry, I guess I just really missed him…My favourite moment – everytime I came to visit him, he would be there, sitting by the door, on his favourite armchair and as I stepped a foot inside the house, he would go all smiley and when ever I had something in my hand he would happily and jokily ask me, “apa~~ ko bawa atu siti? untuk nini?”…that warm and happy smile he gave me would actually make me happy…despite the fact that I had a bad day (prior to the visit)…The thing that I love bout nini boy – he was my number 1 fan…well you cousins know what I’m talking about, something that I did in the past (part-time career hahaha) rajin kaliah nini dgr radio dulu atu…

ingat kamu masih time2 rah nini? well……:

1. tani slalu hang out rah nini di manggis every thursday night
2. main bula ptg2 and the girls jadi the goalkeepers hehehe
3. the girls buat lemonade for the boys lapas main bula
4. the fights, arguments and some were terribly bullied (that was mean kamu! hehee)
5. family badminton tournaments – siuk kaliah…main sampai pukul 4 pagi tia hehehe ada org kalah2an lagi sampai bekelayi hahaha
6. oh yea…when I come to think about it, cali jua ah yg tani selalu k jp dulu ah hahahaha well…jp was “the thing” back then..
7. yg classic berabis – main carah hahahaha I can still smell the FUN!
8. takut rah aunty diah hahahaha siapa ampit kana cubit? heheheh
9. famous line by ????????…A cakap rah B, “napa ya seluar mu ah? cedera jua…” then B replied, “andangnya tu…dari dulu dah…” hahahaha apakan….indakan dari start membali kuyak…lame jua si B ani…membuang case wah ya…
10. selalu dgr uncle amat becrita antu…
11. rajin sleepover rah nini…then breakfast makan nasi goreng nini girl yg nyaman ah…..waaaaaaaaa…….It’s been awhile…..
12. rindu kek batik nini…I’ve tried lots and lots of kek batik org and so far, none has succeeded to satisfy my taste buds…kek batik nini ganya nyaman!
13. a word that is so vivid up to this day…”sigau”…nini boy didn’t like me playing football ptg2 with the boys…tekarih ya keluar rumah bjln tu, though kaki nya sakit, he would scream and yell at me…telling me to stop playing and masuk dlm rumah…hehehe I would go all mad and ckp, “nini ani inda sporting eh”…apa jua kanak2, ancing masih…alum tau napa nini marah2 time atu…now I know that he cared about my upbringing…all he wanted was for me to turn into a proper lady :’(

okay….enough with all this mushy stuff…All I’m saying…mana kamu kan? cousins I mean, bukan org lain ah…inda lagi nampak2 ani wah…the last time I met some of you masa raya ganya! bah soon jalan! jaga ya siapa inda dapat….!!!!

“to have the experience to be with your nini is something that you should cherish…cuz some were born without nini”

Paling Ku Banci!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know this blog untuk kami cousins but I seriously need to set the record straight!

lets have two lovebirds here – si ‘A’ & si ‘B‘…say si A dumped si B for some VALID reasons…and what happen next kawan2 si B tarus2 ucap si A ani gatal la and suka main2 kan perasaan org tia…and ada lagi org gila2han ckp si A ani ada org lain…inda fitnah di mana…for some crazy reasons, some of B‘s friends start jaling2 when ever si A melintas and for some, they’ve decided not to speak to A anymore…what the hell….kalau kamu sayang banar kan si B, kawin plg sama ia…Si A membagi restu plg eh…

GET OVER IT! It’s not the end of the world for si B yet…perhaps si B might end up with someone who’s wayyyyyyyy better than si A…just because A dumped B, that does not make A a bad person…Don’t you people get it – It’s over between A and B…nya org brunai, “ALUM TAH JUDUH TU“…and kalau ada juduh pun, inda kemana…

I heard this a lot…people have the tendency to utilise the word “forever”, relationship-wise, but hey…we can only plan all this…and Im not trying to scare you or anything…but 60% of the time, you don’t end up with the person yg kamu selalu ckp “I love you forever” to for 247…but again, don’t take this too seriously, if sudah juduh…well then nothing in the world can ever set you apart from the one person you love….

The points that I’m trying to make here are:

1. A is not gatal…tau kah definition gatal ani? ngurat anak org yg ada org lain sudah or kelanjian nya atu beyond the ordinary lanji.
2. A inda pandai tu main2kan perasaan org atu…that is just sooo 1950s…unless provoked, then baru tah A catu kali…
3. A never cheated on B nor on any other relationships A had been in, for that matter..
4. and si A wants B‘s friends not to treat A this way…why?…..well it hurts because A finds B‘s friends are all good people and they are A‘s friends too…and to those who have decided to really despise A over this stupid break-up…well SCREW YOU PEOPLE!!!…A has a life to run….THE END…

p/s: I apologised if many of you yg “terasa-but-regretted-the-things-that-you-did-to-A” atu find this post offensive but I am not sorry at all to those yg masih belabih ulah nya atu…!!!

“thanks to those who have been really supportive of A…It means a lot”